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- 3 words that describe you best:
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facets of the man within
- I am:
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Man
- Seeking a:
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Woman
- Age:
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43
- Marital Status:
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Single
- Relationship:
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Friendship
- City:
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Chula Vista
- State:
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California
- Country:
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United States
- Interests:
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I'll tell you later
- In my own words:
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Hello there... a little about myself. I am a complex and complicated man with many facets about myself. I am quite shy and very private, that is, until I feel a reasonable comfort level with a person. I own my own business doing airbrushed artwork on show cars, hot rods, race cars, etc and as a hobby, I am a published writer of both, poetry and fantasy romance. I live in San Diego, along the Pacific's edge where the sun rises over the mountains and sets over the beautiful ocean. A strong and confident man, I have walked many paths of life on my own by choice. The road less travelled wears a familiar face. I consider myself to be part of the dying breed of true hopeless romantics. More often than not, I'd prefer a night out on the country or along the beach as opposed to a night out on the town. Chivalry and romance do indeed exist this day and age. =o) Though casual by nature, I can adapt to any given situation, if need be. Often being accused of being brutally honest, I say what I mean and I mean what I say. Never being left in the dark, one will always know where they stand with me. I would like such honesty in return. I am only myself, nothing more, nothing less. It all goes back to the golden rule of treating others the way in which you would like to be treated. I will be the first to admit that I am a perfectionist when it comes to my work and/or creative endeavors. I believe that anything worth doing, is worth doing right. I do nothing half-assed and try to carry that over into all aspects of my life. Relentless passion for those things in which I believe drive me forward. I know what I want out of life and of love. I am not here on this site to find love, though, if love somehow presented itself in front of me, I would more than welcome it with open arms. I would be content with finding an honest and sincere friend to hang out with, someone to share thoughts with about life, love and everything in between. I have spent a lifetime mending broken wings. This time around I'd like to meet someone whose wings are ready to take flight. That is a little about me. If, after reading my profile, it has resonated or struck a chord within you, feel free to drop me a line...
"We are all born. We all die. Very few truly live..."
Who do I resemble?
I honestly can't think of anyone that I resemble. Up above my race is stated as being a seasoned blend. Technically, I am a filipino/hawaiian mix. Even until present day, I am often mistaken for being in my mid to late twenties. Many moons ago, I use to dress up all of the time. Somehow, over the years, I have gotten to be a bit more casual. If and when I do get out, which is rarely, I will be dressed to the hilt if the situation warrants it. My wardrobe comprises of a lot black. Having always been the odd-one-out, I have never followed fads or trends and have always worn what pleases me. I have been told that I have a cool, calm disposition, a quiet confidence which some seem to equate with being unapproachable. There are those that would describe me as quite the mystery. Not wearing my heart out on my sleeve, I am merely cautious as to who I let within life and my heart. A bit stand-offish, I don't mingle or socialize in public and tend to keep to myself. Appearance is not that important to me as is chemistry, which I have found, has no distinct definition to me. Beauty is indeed only skin deep and in the eyes of the beholder. I am far from being a Fabio or Tom Cruise. You can never judge a book based upon the cover. I mean, sure, there is the initial attraction, chemistry or spark that initiates things, however, ultimately it is through the eyes of the heart in which I will view her. In my younger years, I was often prejudged based solely upon my expressive attire/hairstyle, etc. by people even before they got to know anything about me. I vowed never to follow in those footsteps. I appreciate the beauty of a woman, regardless of size, shape, color, etc. We all have our preferences, however, I believe that when one limits their choices in regard to such things, they may be missing out on the person who could quite possibly be the one. Love can be funny that way. You love who you love, simple as that. Like an unanswered prayer, the person you fall in love with may end up being nothing like what you had imagined ... but even more ... in ways you never imagined. To sum things up, the most physically attractive woman would appear ugly and undesireable to me if she did not have heart and personality to match. At any rate, I will write more as my time permits...
What am I looking for?
* A multi-faceted woman that can appreciate the same in a man.
* A woman that can stimulate me mentally (deep, meaningful conversations).
* Intelligent and articulate.
* A woman that is up to the challenge of decyphering the mystery that is me.
* A sense of humor, a must. The keyword here is moderation.
A woman that can be serious when the situation warrants it.
A woman that realizes there is a time and place for everything. A time to laugh, a time to cry. Not laughing when one should cry, not crying when one should laugh.
* Sensitive, yet not overly sensitive so as to cry at the drop of a hat over something trivial.
* A woman that could appreciate the side of me that is spontaneous, fun-loving and playfully mischievous.
* I am very sentimental and would enjoy meeting a woman that is just as sentimental.
* A woman with the ability to touch my mind, heart, body and soul.
* A woman to inspire me.
* Most importantly honesty, sincerity and integrity.
A firm believer in quality over quantity, I am not out to win any popularity contests. I can count on the fingers of one hand those I consider a true friend. It is often through the trials, tribulations and adversities of life that we realize who our true friends are. I would go to bat for any one of them at the blink of an eye as they would for me. This day and age, a true friend is indeed a rare treasure...
Thank you for your time and patience in your reading of my profile. I know that it was perhaps a bit lengthy. Thorough is simply my way of doing things. To one and all, keep the faith and I wish you well on your search.
- Body type:
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Average
- Height:
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I'll tell you later
- Eyes:
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Brown
- Hair:
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Black
- Ethnicity:
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Seasoned Blend
- Smoking:
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Don't smoke
- Drinking:
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Teetotaler
- Food Preferences:
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A Little of Everything
- Living Situation:
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I'll tell you later
- Social Setting:
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I'll tell you later
- TV Watching:
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I'll tell you later
- Languages:
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English
French
Spanish
American Sign Language (ASL)
- Education:
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Some College
- Occupation:
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Self-employed
- Religion:
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Spiritual
- Sense of Humor:
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I'll tell you later
- Have Kids:
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I'll tell you later
- Want (more) kids:
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I'll tell you later
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